F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I remembered when I was young, my mum brought us to her friends's place and as we grew up, we visit lesser and lesser, then no visits at all. Then 1 day I asked mum, how come we stop visiting your friends?? She replied that they have grown up, got married and have kids..so each of the are busy with their own life, so it's hard to keep in contact..

Then I thought, will I be like her when I grow up??

So I told myself, no matter how busy I am with my married life, or when I have kids, I will arrange to meet up with my friends, whether they come over my place, or I go over to their place, maybe I still can afford to do so now, but not sure when I grew older..

I have a friend, whom i knew her since sch days. She broke off with her ex recently after being together for 7 months. I did not like her ex all along, as to me he was a flirt and he could break up with his ex for my friend, I was thinking he will do so to my friend one day. ( I has the same experience). Her ex went to sms my sch mate and she is upset about it. But I told her, since their relationship is over, why care about that? Just forget the guy and move on..She thought I am siding our sch mate and she is pissed over it..So she ignored me for 2 weeks..then text me. She smsed and said she was broke as she splurged as she was depressed. And so she need to borrow $ from me. I was pissed but I still think of lending to her (afterall, if your Best Friend is broke, you should have lend some to her to survive till pay day right?).

At the end of the day, she mentioned that she managed to sell her asset away and no need to loan from me. I told her that not only her in this world have problems, everyone has their own too. She replied that she understood and she agreed that she is SELFISH. But I thought I need some time to cool off, and she needs too..

So I called her after 2 weeks, and she did not pick up. She text me and said she need some time to forget her ex and told me not to call her (AGAIN?!). I was like WTF..ok. so I did not call up till she called me and soon we met up for dinner which was 2 weeks ago. I can tell that she was really getting over it and she was happy with her single life now..

And yesterday, she text me and said there was this guy who was going after her, started calling her and mentioned her ex to her again.. and she was pissed again! So she told me that I don't understand her as a friend at all..bla bla..WTF!!!! I think she's crazy..i had enough torturing from her! hubby told me to ignore her forever..but i just felt affected..I'm worried that she will do something silly, on the other hand, I begin to felt disappointed in her etc..

Can someone tell me what to do?

Annual D&D

haha..my company D&D poster..look fun and interesting right?! i can bring hubby along...an anyone give an idea of what to dress? my 1st time to attend a company D&D, last time Mot only has xmas lunch, but no theme and never invite partner..Tosh has..so happy!!

anyway, told dear last night abt the D&D and guess he was excited abt it too! me and colleague have discussed abt it and we will head to the "No 1 Costume Novelty" to see see look look..remember the last time i wana rent it for photo shoot, but at the end i did not..it cost $60 for 3 days rental so not that ex..and we are getting more to rent so it will be cheaper! I actually thought of wearing my MRS SMITH costume again but the guns are nowhere to be found! haha..and again, it was too explosive to wear, I will then be the centre of attraction which I don't want!

**btw. thank you GOVT..though it was an unhappy wkend, they are giving $575 to me this end of Sept and $675 to hubby! **

Updated: they are only giving me $225. What they meant was they gave $575 for the
Year 2008..kns..bai bai gai xin yi chang.

hahaha..just like what mum told me, after all the bad lucks, come the good ones!

my 100th post

i guess the last wkend was the worst in 2008..

the friday was ok..went out with hubby friends and ivy to ice cold beer down emeral hill..we had lots of fun..laughters..esp hubby will feel so proud that he got a wife who knew how to entertain his frieds..trying to match make jason and ivy..keke..wana to pay the bill on the 1st round but jason actually said that he don't think it's good for us to pay each time..so he paid for the 1st round..and we paid the 2nd round..

We had budwiser, hoegarden, corona, ice cold pizza and wings..i had 3 bottles, by then i think i'm already HIGH enough..

p.s. sorry to ivy as i accidentally hit the bottle and the alchol flow to her pants..so bad of me..

saturday..i had a nightmare..and woke up and cried...i dreamt that my father in law was scolding me as i lost his precious grandchild in Sentosa..then mother in law called in the morning, askng hubby to play mahjong..don't know why i just feel bad, maybe because of the nightmare so i stared hard at hubby and he rejected his mum..awhile later, he asked if he can play anot..so i told him up to you..guess what..he lost $400..and that's not the end..we got a summon of $20..we parked at the back of his hse, and another mahjong kaki parked in front and he got none!!! Can you imagine how i felt?!

well..mum said it's ok, should think that all the bad luck have gone though they came together! anyway..lose $$ = less $$ so means no more shopping for me or chill out with friends till pay day!

;( it's ok, i never blame my dear cos life is full of ups but less with downs..only 1 time lose $400, the other time when he played he won 500plus..

week 37

;p sounds like weekly report.

Last week was a week of roller coaster..thought i almost need a surgery..and scared Dear off as he was in Dubai..but now it's ok..no need the surgery liao..

-Met up with Ivy on Thursday..she looked stress and lost weight..haiz..

-Collected the snow skin mooncake from Kia Hiang last Friday, then passed to in laws..she's happy..hehe esp when her mahjong kakis said..wow..your son and daughter in law so filial, still got buy mooncake for you unlike my son!

-Saturday, jog in the morning..rashes again..mum said maybe i really not suitable to jog..went to WAN TOU SEK at geylang for Dim Sum(it was all Allen's fault cos he text me to ask me out for dim sum at Beach Rd Ah Yat but i don't want to go there since it's near my office)..then after dim sum, went to chinese physiotherapy..it was ouch ouCH and OUCH! i didn't scream but it was really pain..the uncle is in his 60s..can be my grandpa..but i really don't like the idea of him rubbing the medicine oil at my back without hubby inside..so i decided not to frequent him again no matter how much my back hurts!

-went to bliss garden for lunch on Sunday since we have another table left for wedding..I can say they are still good for after sales service..but somehow we are disappointed with some dishes..like there is ice in the salad prawn..there is bone in the shark fin soup etc..the rest were ok..after that head for shopping with bro-in-law and wife and bao bei..went to haji lane first..hubby got a burberry black label shirt for CNY(you must be thinking why so early? cos the clothes there were limited, they will not bring in the same deisgn again), since it looks nice on hubby, so we get it..$109..reasonable price..then went Taka as bro-in-law wana get mooncakes..maybe i was so nice that day..hubby said he wana get LV bag for me!! hahaha...but in the end, I rejected again..can you imagine the queue to LV shop? I rather go home nap!

back to work..business ain't good these few weeks!

back ache argh!

i had almost programmes every day last week..start off with monday..

Went for frog porridge with allen and joey..not forgetting hubby..chit chat session..the excitement is on the frog porridge!! i really love their frog porridge..it's spicy enough and the porridge is soft..talking abt it now makes me HUNGRY!

Tuesday - went for department dinner at the hotel next to office - Park Royal hotel. thought it was some not nice buffet..but my colleague turned me on as she mentioned that the durian prata is nice there! so i looked forward to it..knock off sharp, head to Haji Lane to check out and spot one shop selling branded like Burberry black, Mcqueen corssover Puma, Kate Spate, Givency etc..think it's a good place for hubby to shop for his new year clothes and shoes..the range starts from $90+ to few hundreds..but u know..prob only 10-12 pple in SG will be wearing these..then back to the buffet..i was so damn sad...the prate man is on MC for a week cos he was knocked down by bike..argh! no durian prate = boring buffet!

Wednesday - went out with my ex colleagues..first dinner with the guys at chomp chomp..then later to ktv pub to drinkk..my jie meis came to join and i reached home at 2am!!

Thursday - hang over and too tired..went home straight after work. back ache pain started.. ;~~

Friday - really damn "exciting"..went to lunch with my boss.gave him a birthday treat..then went for stock take at warehouse near IMM..and secretly head to suntec for the COMEX..haha..cos my boss wana get ps3 and tv..then reached back office at 5pm..do work for 30 mins and it's TGIF! called dear and he can't picked me as his brother borrowed our car and even told us to take cab down to Clementi to pick his car for him! WTF! Told dear to take train instead as it will be jam everywhr! Reach Clementi and wana take a cab as the service center closed at 630pm..but no cab! shit..so took a bus and told the pple there we will reach before 7pm..long walk and crossing of overhead bridge..finally reach at 659pm..argh! then drove back and felt hungry and got the urge to eat MAC..but can't find it! so drove in the petrol station and get Polar chicken pie..hmm..so pissed.. stayed overnight at in laws place..cos i can see hubby wana watch soccer with his brother.

Saturday - woke up at 830am..hubby went jogging then had breakfast and went for massage session..it's a treat from Iricia..we were late for the appt..and the staff there were saying that we are late and the next customer will come in punctually..keep nagging which pissed hubby off..1st had scrub..then steam..but the room steamer is spoiled..so went to the public instead, only 10 mins..i haven even sweat! ;( after which rinsed off and head to jacuzzi..20 mins only..not shiok enough..then massage..the lady that massage for me is ok..if i shout pain, she will be gentle but for dear..if he shout pain..the lady will ignore and continue..poor hubby..reach home and discover i have blu black and my back continue to ache! (thought massage supposed to help?)

Sunday - rest at home..then send dad to workshop, went to temple to pray..then go to ntuc to buy groceries..cos hubby wana eat baked rice and i want to eat spag..so i did the baked rice!! and surprisingly it's nice! not forgetting to mention hubby bought a new pair of slippers from Adidas and bought me a flat pump shoes from Pazzion! (can't wear heels for quite some time due to back ache)