busy & tired

like what i always say, when u r back from LEAVE..u will be super busy..and I am right now..but i am really too tired to use my brain anymore..so hack care..i'm leaving office on dot.

haha..mum just called and informed me that the center lift is no longer in operation, need to use the new lift..orhx..i haven been home for more than a week..

and see..joey just called and asked me to go to emerald hill for a drink..juigoy asked me to St james for halloween(it's out..i dun wan a noisy place)..cindy asked me to go for coffee..i am tired..can i not go anywhere..Anyway, i decide to head home and had dinner firsts..shall see how later..

miss my dear..he's out to Dubai again..boo

bad mood

maybe "auntie" is coming so my mood swing is here..feel easily fustrated..a little thing make me unhappy..not to mention that these few days only slept at 1am..and woke up at 8am the next day..today dear is on MC..can see that he dun like this job because of his manager..he keep having the thoughts to chg job..seems like no matter how much they pay him..he still will leave..just the matter of time..


anyway..went to collect the MR & MRS CHU softcopy and i think the bridal shop made a mistake..they gave us the wrong one and thanks to Celine..who is helping me to do some final touch up before i pass to ah wai for mass print of invitation cards..

washing dishes day!

ok..was on leave ytd cos the guan yin dan event started..and so..my job is to wash dishes and i bought a new gloves..together with my mango hand lotion..but at the end it dun works much for me cos i bought the 'L' size gloves and it was TOO BIG for me! so all the soap and water went in and my hands became old and sulken..but after the mango lotion, it's back to normal!

Other than washing, job like looking after nephew and eating like nobody business..haha..dear's hk cousin came back and bought me a mp4 plus a dress..so nice of her..but seriously..i don't need any mp4..cos the product i'm doing currently is a music phone..how can i not support my own product? She also said that i've lost much weight and not to lose anymore else my face will be sulken.. hmm..i don't think i lose much and i can't lose anymore cos my built is already that BIG..

ok that's all for today..cos when u r on leave and came back the next day..u will be busy like MAD!

cindy~

yeah..meeting cindy this evening for dinner..it's been 2 mths i last seen her..must take good look at her..last night iricia came over for my facial session and i had the strawberry mask..hmm..delicious smell! she will come over 2 weeks later for my another facial session and also a facial for my back..to remove all the acne or blackheads..shit man..i hate my back..got scars..dunno how i am gng to cover it on my rom and wedding day!

btw..chg my blog song..i love this song so much..first hear it on "TANG XIN FENG BAO" and i screamed at dear and said:"this song is so beautiful!" and finally i got the title "My Love will get you home"..thanks to Grace Hung..my last time clubbing mate..i got it from her blog..

boo boo day

FIL wants to get rid off the marine fish tank and told dear to check if any of his friends wants it..but no one respond..and the renovation at his hse gonna start today so we need to move off it urgently.

With the help from my colleagues, i put up on a marine forum and the whole lunch time i was busy answering calls and replying thru sms for the enquiries. Finally, there is one buyer who is willing to move off the tank at 8pm today and is paying $100! Without any hesistation, i called up FIL immediately. Guess what was his reply..oorh vinson's friend took it away liao! ;( boo

no chioce..i called back the buyer and apologised..said that my hubby sold it off without letting me know..he sounds upset..dun get the wrong idea..he is an ah pek..

boo boo day..my colleagues laughed at me and he even helped me to put up at the forum, saying it's taken away 5 mins ago..

eric, my colleague was saying i'm a lucky person, got a hubby who dotes me and support me..actually i know dear dotes me but i prefer to support myself then been dependant on him..

wedding fotos selection/mum's and MIL's evening gown

Hmm..saturday went for photo selections..to be frank, the photos are not well-taken. I did not add in additional photos nor sign up for the digital effects. The girl who served me has sux attitude!! I am allowed to chose 60 photos, 30 for the main and the other 30 diff poses the 5R album. She asked me to top-up 3.9k for 60 to be in the main album, all digital effects. Speaking the truth, intially i was hesistating but i can't part with the 3.9k.

Then she offered us to have 30pcs of digital effects and top-up 1k..but after seeing her attitude, damn f*** up so we rejected her again..ask her for 1 softcopy of 1 pic, she told us have to wait..it's not that hard, just burn into a disc..and she told me the computer is switched off.. See how can she survive in the "SERVICE" industry?

Sunday, brought mum to Thomson Plaza as I saw one very nice cheongsum on Friday. But ended up, she prefer another black linear 3/4 with pink and orange sequins one..cost $158 after discount. I paid for her dress since i save on the wedding photos. Then later in the evening, brought my mother in law back to the same stall..(think the lady boss is super happy with me cos i returned to buy another cheongsum from him). This time, MIL chose another kind of cheongsum, it's a long dark purple one(the most "IN" color now) , velvet material..then got her a pair of purple with crystal studs shoes. Her shoes cost $45.90 and dress costs $210. If you think it's expensive..actually it's NOT. Cos OG is selling at 300 to 500plus for cheongsum kind of evening gown.

Her cheongsums are handmade from shanghai..and for that price is super worth it lor!

MIL is so funny, when she reached home, i told her to chg for everyone to see..cos from her face, i could tell that she wanted to show off her cheongsum to dear's siblings. So after she put on the cheongsum with the bling bling shoes, she walked into sis-in-law's room and asked her: "IS IT NICE?"

my sis-in-law replied NICE and dear said:"Let's welcome 881 superstar!" wahahaha..so funny..Glad that she loves it so much and same goes for mum too..Reason why I brought them early to buy is because from Nov onwards I will be busy preparing other stuffs..so i'm worried that i might neglect them..and for my mum, she's always stingy on herself..and splurge on us..so I rather get her a nice and reasonable dress.. I called her last night and asked her again, do you really like it? Her reply was: OF COURSE!

BAD NEWS: Album will only be ready in DEC so guess all guests can only see our album during our wedding..

But I managed to ask for 1 of the softcopy to be given to me by end of Oct so that I have enough time to pass to AH WAI to do up my invitation cards! Can't wait to get my cards ready!

dating @ Kbox Marine Parade

All i can say is other than the price, nothing attracts me back to Kbox Marine Parade..the food are all cold and refils don't come so fast, worst is toilet stink and flooded..

Next year their anniversary sale, trust me, I will not go to the Marine Parade branch. I will called up other branches and booked it early!

I went to to yio chu kang mrt by company transport and thought it should be faster if i take bus 76 to meet dear, and dear hops on and head to Marine Parade instead of me taking bus 70 to meet him, then transfer to another bus..BUT..I'm wrong.. The bus 76 is so popular, almost every bus stops except for 1 ulu one..it stops..wah piang..by then dear hops on, i'm already 1 hour on the bus..can u imagine? And on the way to Marine Parade, we pass by Paya Lebar, my bladder is so full that my tummy feels pain, cos i bear with the urgency for so long!!



So we alight at Paya Lebar, head to the toilet and then took a bus to Marine Parade. The appointment was 7pm..and we are still at Paya Lebar, so got to chg to 7.45pm..and the lady was nice..initially our session will end at 10pm but we reached late so she extended to 11pm..

1st is to get our tummy full
then with your full tummy, you can relax and sing better!
then it will be time to play around!
and not forgetting to sing DUET!

dear was singing like 20 songs in 1 shot, without evern drinking water..it's his private concert yesterday..i told him that it because he deprived from childhood, during his young days, he missed out the Karoke fun! Truste me, his singing is Good..that's why I am using my ears instead my mouth all the time!

K Box at Marine Parade this evening!

YoooWooo..am gng to Kbox tonight with dear dear..so happy..but the weather is not cooperating..it's raining now.. been busy the whole day and left with this 1 min for me to blog.

Went to his sec sch friend's grandfather's funeral last night. The SIN MIN newspaper went to do reporting as his grandpa is the founder of Loo Clan and the boxing oil..since the funeral is only blocks away from his hse..so we headed back and manage to source out his childhood photos..Hehe..I have input the photos for the slideshow on wedding night..except for mine..hmm..shall do it tonight.. Celine came by and said WOAH you really enjoyed doing all these..keke..my interest ma..

ok..time to head back to work the to Kbox..

kbox tomorrow!

yeah..dear finally agrees to go Kbox with me! and yesh we're gng to Marina Kbox tomorrow..and i told him i thought you won't go..and his reply was to pak tor with me..hehe..he's so sweet..

updates from 12th Oct to 15th Oct

let see..

12 Oct - went to meet dear at 11am since i am not working and he just came back from Dubai. After which, he sent me to Bedok to pick Iricia's steamer..(was send in for repair) and nap all the way till evening..and spend at his place for the night..wkend ma..

13 Oct - he's not working so we head back to my hse for facial. Iricia came by and start facial at 3pm, end around 5pm..chit chat till 6pm when her COUSIN came and fetch her back from my hse..so me and my dear head back to his hse..it's bad to go out when u just finish facial.

14 Oct - knowing that i will do my rebonding on Monday, i decided to bring his nephews to Wild Wild Wet..neither both of us nor the 2 boys have been there..initially bro-in law wanna join us but his wife told him to stay home and packed their stuffs since we are bringing their boy out.. we had so much fun..despite we reached there at 415pm. Wild Wild Wet closed at 7pm..And Lele, the 3 yrs old boy was initially very happy but somehow after the slide at Pro.Yakult playground, he seems to frighten and don't even want to step into the waters anymore. But lastly, he was still forced by me to get down to the waters..( i mean you will have to train him else he will forever sit by the side) Much shouting and crying, but at last he still enjoyed and went back to the waters..Enjoyed so much that he don't even want to go home.. As for the 9 years old Ah bi, he was so scared of adverturous ride but i told him, if you're not gng, then no more outings for you..so he went for the ride with dear..can tell that he is scare cos he kept repeating "My heart almost fell out"! haha..

see how happy they are!

15 Oct - company dear for breakfast with his parents before sending him to work. after sending Lele to school, father-in law sent me to AMK for rebonding. $80 for half head rebond and add another $60 for treatment. The stylist kept persuading me to sign up their package $570 for 9 hair treatments. wah piang..not that i don't love my hair but i can always do treatment on my own. I rather spend the money in Tokyo..

my rebonded hair..

i spent too much this month but no choice, for ROM ma..anyway looking forward to Sat cos it's the day to choose my wedding photos for the album. I am excited! plan to go Kbox tomorrow with dear since they are having 50% off which means 2 pax for buffet and ktv is only $35! Cheap right..dear says ok but i can't skip my boxercise..but what's the point of exercise and eating too much?

non stop drinking

been drinking with ah wai and sista drinkers pairs (iricia and pauline) on Tuesday..it's always fun when ah wai came along to join us despite he was BUSY. my brother ah wai, never miss a chance to meet up with me if i called him out..And he is going to print my msytery invitation cards for me FOC..See what i meant by true brother/sista hood..

Last night, went Dragonfly with the sista drinkers pair again..we went for dinner at food republic in VIVO..nice food..i had the scissor curry rice..yummy! at dragonfly, we didn't had much drinks cos pauline is starting work today..but somehow she was DRUNK..and to my impression, she really didn't had much as compare to Tuesday..

Today, gonna catch up with Joey to pass her stuffs. Sorry Cindy for not meeting u today but i know i will make up to u soon! And this noon..i'm gonna work from home! HAHA~thanks to my acting boss!

BTW, dear & ah wai are quite close..maybe because ah wai loves me like his sis, and loves dear like his brother-in-law.. belowis the evidence..

ah wai and ah leong kissing him on our birthdays in 2006. the guy i'm hugging is ah wai..
pauline being forced to kiss ah song
me and iricia
pauline and me

me with sista drinkers pair!

dear is flying again

dunno why..i just felt like it's dear 1st time flying off again..this morning, couldn't stop my tears from flowing..

last night, dear was telling me his ex colleague is getting divorce..but he didn't ask her why..then i was like..dear..i'm so worried, so many of our friends are getting divorced..it's not that I have no confidence in him. But as I heard our friends' reasons for divorcing, it's got nothing to do with love nor affairs..but MONEY $$..

in a marriage, both must not JI JIAO about $$..not necessary who earns more has the GREATER POWER to talk..this is something that i kept remindin myself..never ever quarrel with dear over $$. Last sunday, we quarrelled cos I mentioned about not gng to HONEYMOON, i don't wanna waste my savings..esp i want a kid next yr..

having a kid involve lots of $$ and I don't wish in future i have problems in buying diapers or milk powder or even if my kid is hosptialized(touch wood) and i have no $$ to admit him into hospital etc..

STRESS! i know all these are pessimistic and there is long way ahead for me to think that far..but i just couldn't stop thinking. That's the problem with ladies..we always think far ahead..

no matter what, if the family and love bond is strong, we can always walk over it..that's what dear is always saying. that's also what i love about him..he said he is poor, he will provide rice and milk for me and kid. And when i asked what about you..he replied: I will eat bread, not even instand noodles cos bread is cheap..See what I meant?

busyness back again!

aiyoh..though i will be having holiday soon but who knows on Sat receive a call from my colleague in TJ..eh we need to build phones in AMK next week..I was like 'diaoz'..but no choice..have to do ..I am paid to do all these..

but also good..if not i will be bored to death..my bestie is gonna divorce with her hubby..they're together for almost 10 years, married about 7 years..is it wasted? after hearing much from her, i know she is not happy with him anymore..but i am not losing confidence over marriage cos i know dear is the right guy for me.

went to far east and check out the cheongsums for my jie meis..range from 100 t0 180, but MTM. dear is saying it's over our budget. I'm thinking what else then..will discuss with bestie..we also went to the idear shop..no new wedding favors, i still like the 'XI' keychain, $1.50 for each.will get 420pcs..They also still those wedding essentials items, but abit ex..cos it's orchard ma..chinatown will be cheaper..so i will shop with mum when reaching near..

Need to get the bedsheets and quilt cover..idear also got sell, but 200+ bucks for the whole set..I'm looking for SPONSOR, anyone? ;p

body shop sale!

body shop rocks! up to 70% off sale at Suntec Convention. Went to shop during lunch time and imagine the queue is that LONG and I queue for an hour! Went with Carmen..

Returns for the day:
-white musk home fragrance
-white musk shimmering powder
-face powders for sis in law
-5 lipsticks (2 for kathryn, 2 for sis in law, 1 for mother in law)
-lip gloss
-10 bttles of moonflower body lotion (meant as xmas gift to colleagues)
-seaweed cleansing gel
-cucumber make up remover
-seaweed moisturizer

;x spend $90 bucks can you imagine it's so CHEAP! love my dear cos i spend so much and he never nag~ he even said aiyoh so cheap why don't u buy a dozen?!

nothing to do

i really got nothing to do in the office, but still have to come in to pretend to do something ;p
everyone is asking if i am excited about my ROM, how's my wedding preparation..frankly speaking, i'm not in the mood to plan anything yet..

A big event in the family is coming, the annual Guanyin Dan, so i am looking forward to that 1st.. going for rebonding next Friday, since it's a company holiday or maybe even Thursday...must do 2 weeks before ROM..found this offer in AMK hub with cousin Lingzi yesterday. $80 for half head rebonding, include treatment and rebonding shampo&conditioner. And they use Shiseido rebonding cream, the cream which i only trust..Damn worth it lor.

Maybe I should do it on thurs noon since dear will be back next Friday a.m. Oh yah, finally he got to travel again, next Tue to Fri..and then he will get to earn mileage, exchange air tix for honeymoon!

Cousin Lingzi and her parents came my hse yetersday and as usual, non-stop chats and her mum said that she was happy cos rarely cousins are that close as they grew up. Think me and her will not have a distance..haha..Bet you agree ,right, Lingzi?

sweet morning!

this morning, dear and me head to prata place for breakfast..so sweet right. and i captured him while he is complaining that the prata is last night left over..


and after eating, both of us just walk to our own bus stop, and suddenly i remembered, we have not pay for the food yet. So I rang him and he walked back to pay. Can you imagine no one stop us, despite we did not pay? but anyway i think it's not nice to do that..


dear called again, saying throat not well, i think he wana take MC again..he is really bored in the office, nothing for him to do.. maybe i should go home and company him, since there is nothing for me to do here.

bored

I am really bored in the office..my whole team is out to Tianjin..and it is so quiet now. My boss 'im' me ytd and said the next time if i can go with them, he will make sure i am drunk everynight..haha..where got so easy..but i felt happy cos i was appreciated and missed by my fellow team mates..

dear saw my blog ytd and told me he was so touched..and both of us were hugging each other tighly to bed..this am he woke up and gave me a kiss..btw..he never failed to kiss me goodnight..we have been together for 3.5 yrs, but everyday was like we just start dating. Everyone was excited to see my photos..esp the MRS SMITH suit. Am considering to offer French 1k additional for all the photos to be digital and add in of photos. If they dun agree, well then me and dear will go in Malaysia to take a brand new album..Trust me..malaysian's wedding shops are very professional, and all albums i saw before are well taken..

Should I go ahead to malaysia and take a new album? Cos I worry if wait till i chose photos then decide, might not enough time to go in malaysia to take..

PHOTOSHOOT!

my manicure
my outdoor hairstyle
my outdoor make up

Photoshoot was great! Me and hubby simply enjoyed the whole day but by 6pm, we were so exhausted that we couldn't smile widely anymore.

Friday: went to gown fitting, met the new coordinator Yingxiu. She is great as compare to KIM(the previous coordinator on my 1st gown fitting). The KIM like menopause, everyday face black black unlike Yingxiu. Yingxiu and her colleague even allowed me to loan their new ROM dress without any additional charges!

Saturday: Went to Cathay Adidas to get his bro's sport shoes cos he is going to Korea this week..Dear went to do his exchange for his shoes, as 1 is size 8 and the other is size 9. There comes the rude store in-charge, Famly. HE is extremely rude to us and even wanted to start a quarrel with us! He is simply unreasonable, have no sense of good service. I am going to write an email to complain about him! And because of him, i damaged my nails and went to redo on that night! Luckily, Jiazhen, my manicurist told me it FOC within 3 days! After reaching home at 9pm, I start to pack for Sunday's photoshoot.

Sunday: Woke up at 6am, must be too excited. Go through my bag to ensure everything is in! Reach the studio at 10am, met my make up artist Irene.. She has done a great job! Considerate as well! By 11am, my photographer, Ken is in and we started our Indoor shoot first..and not to mention that I did wore the MRS SMITH Attire and had great fun. Even Irene was excited for us, then she came in, get us to do different pose, asking Ken to let her see the shots..1st was my red evening gown, then the gold evening, then MRS SMITH suit, then KUA and lastly wedding gown!
At 4pm, we completed our indoor shoots, took lunch and went for our outdoor shoot. 1st we head to Bontanic Garden, simply becuause I saw my colleague's wedding pic and love the waterfall. Took some pics there and some tourists took pics of me..Felt shy but proud at the same time!
Then to Sentosa, where we took the sunset and caught many's attention. We were at Tanjong Rhu beach, sat on the sand, ran around..my photographer was sitting at the side of the sea taking photos of us. But it is a slope and if anyone were to push him, he is going to fell into the sea. He has done GREAT JOB and really willing to sacrifice.
Last to esplanade/fullerton. 1st time in my life, i sat at the road side of Benjamin Sheares Bridge. Ken climbed up the bridge to take photo for us. Don't you think he is nice? BTW, he is good looking as well but he is a malysian..married with kids ;p

Conclusion: Peeps who is considering on which studio to sign up, consider French bridal:
Coordinator:Yingxiu
Photographer:Ken
Make up:Irene

They are located at No 65 Tanjong Pagar. I am not paid to advertise for them but because of their AWESOME service!