Tuesday, March 23, 2010

it's a blessing..that we have each other

today should be the most happiest day since start of 2010..even happier than Seoul trip.

because hubby is very very happy today and thus i'm happy..

but he thought i'm happy because of his new toy/purchase.

it's not, somehow it's that i know he is nervous, i'm nervous. he is worried, i'm worried.
he's excited and anxious, i am excited and nervous.

and NOW, he's happy and i'm happy too.

I wouldn't say i am lucky to have him in my life but I would say we are both lucky to have both in our life. lolx

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Korea

Being lazy and busy were the excuses I gave myself not to blog. And on the other hand, I complaint others that why arent they updating? lolx

Korea was not a fun trip compare to Japan and HK because shopping wasn't fantastic! Plus the super cold weather made it worst. Guess one time is more than enough. Also, we had an 'extra' tagging alone everywhr we go or otherwise called up hubby every now and then cos he is worried that we will go missing? What's more when he is a super blur in traffic and roadsign - which caused us almost to miss our flight. Anyway, at the end of the day, I still have to thank him to host us around, and seeing him got a scratch on his hand when we were running for 'AMAZING RACE from Myeong Dong to Incheon Airport' with 4 transfers, inclusive 1 transfer from his car to subway, then subway 1 to subway 2, then subway 2 to subway 3, then subway 3 to airport subway. FAINTZ!

And guess the worst was coming back to SG - i had to clean up the house, wash the clothes and go for CNY visiting. Luckily, hubby helped on the chores.

This probably concluded why we didn't really enjoy this trip. And so, hubby promised Taiwan end of this year, probably not CNY otherwise most shops were closed. Need to plan well!

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

my CNY and holiday plans!

We have got our house ready for CNY, done with the cleaning, mini decor, and new year goodies!

12th Feb
knock off at 1230, have lunch then head home to tidy up the place before..
in laws family is coming over for CNY reunion dinner. A total of 12pple at my place..can you imagine how crowded it will be?

After they head home, i will have to do cleaning again then pack my luggage..

13th Feb
washing of the bedsheets and other laundry so that when i'm back, i can concentrate of other stuffs. mum will come over my place to take care while i'm away..

then evening to mum's place for reunion dinner..

then head to in-laws place to leave our car there and bro-in-law will drive us to airport.

From 14th to 19th Feb..Seoul here I come!

Day 1,
Arrive at Incheon Airport at 7.05am (Flight SQ 602)
Check in hotel (Western Co-op Residence / 웨스턴 프리미어 코업)
-Gyeongbokgung Palace
-Namsangol Hanok Village
-N Seoul Tower (Teddy Bear Museum) and Namsam cable car (go in the evening)

Day 2
-Insadon
-MyeongDong
-Namdaemum

Day 3
-Seoul-Yeoju Premium Outlets
-Jjim-jil-bang

Day 4
-Everland
-Dongdaemum

Day 5
- Deoksugung Palace
- COEX
- Bongeunsa Temple
- 63 CITY BUILDING & Hangang River

Day 6
- Last min shopping at Dongdaemm
- Check out hotel and leave to Incheon airport at 1630.
- Flight SQ15 at 1940

the first two days is CNY and most shops are closed. We can only head to those cutural and sight-seeing places which means no shopping ;(

but i look forward to the rest esp the factory outlet shopping. This outlet is at the outskirt of Seoul and we need to travel 2 hours if he drove us there or we take a bus there (abt 4 hrs). I pray hard that he will drive us there and bring us to Jjim-jil-bang for traditional Korean sauna.

I believe somehow this plan will have changes if he decide to bring his family to join me for Everland but then again I am worried about the crowd during the holidays!

20th Feb & 21st Feb
again, my weekly cleaning. Unpacking of stuffs and send those clothings to laundry shop..plus visiting to hubby's relatives place, then my relatives..

This is why i hate to trael during CNY but no choice otherwise the rest of the year hubby can't take leave..

HAPPY CNY pals!

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

all ready for CNK aka holiday

After the very last post, i was practically busy everyday, staying up late at work.
Yah, the past 2 weeks, i don't get to see sunset. This is how my work is driving me crazy!

The doctor got back to me and i am perfectly fine.

This year is my 1st yr to celebrate CNY at my own place but unfortunately i have plans for holidays - a treat for me and hubby for working so hard in 2009 and to put down all unhappy stuffs.

I think i really made a good housewife because:
- though in laws and parents kept saying my house is new, isn't much to clean, i started spring cleaning last week
- clean the windows (all by myself) - they are now shiny w minimal dust (because dust accumulate everyday)
- clean all the lights with hubby help to remove the casing for me

And since we are departing on CNY eve, we will have reunion dinner with in-laws family on Fri, steamboat at our place, follow by dinner with my family on the eve before we head to airport. I just can't wait for next week to come soon!

Winter clothings were all packed in 2 luggage and we are bringing 2 BIG LUGGAGES and 1 small luggage plus a handheld BIG bag. So you can expect the loot that i want to bring back from KOREA?

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Scared?

went for a health screening last year and doctor feel lumpy at my left breast so she suggest i use my 2009 budget for ultrasound scan.

and so, today i went ahead for the scan. And though the nurse refused to reveal anything, from the screen i say a round thing on my left breast.

Scared? well, the first thought came into my mind, it's ok even if it's cancer. I have bought my life and medical insurance. Even if i die, hubby will get that little $$ and look for a new wife. ;p I dun wan to do chemo, just probably remove the whole breast.

Anyway, need to wait for the doctor to come back tomorrow. And if she calls tomorrow, means I am right, i have got something serious at the left breast. But if she doesn't, then, i am fine!

Text hubby and asked him not to worry. This makes me really miss him alot and I want to listen to his voice, hearing him saying '你不要想这么多啦!整天胡思乱想!'

I don't think it is cancer because i don't feel pain or anything. And my breast dun looks funny to me. LOL.

Anyway, did a search in the net, and i suspect this is probably what i have gotten:
Fibroadenoma (Benign Breast Tumor)
Pronunciation: FI-bro-a-di-NO-ma

Fibroadenomas are one of the findings that can be seen on your mammogram. They are benign (not cancerous) breast tumors that are made of glandular and fibrous breast tissue. Fibroadenomas can occur alone, in groups or as a complex. If you have multiple or complex fibroadenomas, this may raise your risk of breast cancer slightly.

Can You Feel a Fibroadenoma?:
While doing your regular breast self-exam, you may feel a breast fibroadenoma. These feel firm, round, smooth, rubbery, and are movable. They are so mobile that women sometimes refer to them as “breast mice” because they tend to run away from your fingers. A fibroadenoma may feel tender, especially right before your period, when it may swell due to hormonal changes.

What Do Fibroadenomas Look like on a Mammogram?:
Fibroadenomas appear as round or oval smooth-edged masses. The outline of the mass will be clearly defined, not blurry. Sometimes they are accompanied by coarse calcifications. Fibroadenomas can look like cysts or a well-contained tumor.

How Can You Be Sure It Is a Fibroadenoma?:
Your doctor or radiologist may send you to have an ultrasound study done. This is because a fibroadenoma will be easier to distinguish from other tissue, because of the way it responds to sound waves. It will appear as a dark area, with a definite outline, homogeneous, round or oval, and may have smooth-edged bumps. If the ultrasound doesn’t give a definite result, the next study may be an MRI (magnetic resonance image). The most conclusive test is a fine needle biopsy or a core needle biopsy, to get a sample of the cells for a pathologist to examine.

Treatment or Removal of Fibroadenomas:
Since fibroadenomas are benign, treatment will vary depending on your diagnosis. If it is small, painless, remains the same size, and a biopsy shows no problems, you would not need further treatment, but may have follow-up ultrasounds. However, if it is large (more than three cm), painful, growing, or a biopsy results in atypical (very active) cells, you can have it surgically removed with a lumpectomy. Is it also possible to have fibroadenomas removed with a laser ablation.

What Causes Fibroadenomas?:
The exact cause of fibroadenomas is unknown. They seem to be influenced by estrogen, because they appear most often in premenopausal or pregnant women, or in women who are postmenopausal and taking HRT (hormone replacement therapy). Most fibroadenomas come and go during your menstrual cycle, when your hormone levels are changing.
When Do Fibroadenomas Appear?:
These are most common in women who are from 15 to 30 years old and in pregnant women. Fibroadenomas occur in 10 percent of all women, but in 20 percent of African-American women. They are much less common in postmenopausal women, unless the women is on estrogen therapy. About 10 percent of all fibroadenomas will disappear over time, and twenty percent of them will recur. If they don’t disappear, they usually stop growing when they reach two or three cm.

-retreive from about.com

Conclusion: wait for the call from Doctor. ;)

Friday, January 8, 2010

Christmas and New Year 2009 - eat and eat / Universal Studio

on the respective 2 days - Christmans and NY, we have hosted our friends for steamboat cum teppanyaki at our place.

and i have been doing 'golfing' aka mopping..lolx. though tired but it was enjoyable.


Wanna upload the pics, but will need to download from FB to my phone then upload to blog in office and either my iphone failed me or i kept forgetting!!


the day before NY eve, had a great party with my siao char bohs (who else, other than Jolene and Prestina) and 2 guy buddies (moon and ah wai). I must say they are still my favourtie group of beer drinkers/party pals!


latest update my house: it is very dusty and i am a weekend maid. non stop household chores and i think in my next life, i want to be a REAL MAN, or a rich lady. wahahaha.


Next, Moon just called and asked if we wana do healthy family gathering at Sentosa next week, which i bursted into loud laughter! Because, as mentioned we also meet up for dinner followed by party. Then I suggest to wait for Universal Studio and it was AGREED, for the time being.(because i wonder will the party goers forget about it?)


I have never been to Universal and frankly, i don't mind paying $70 to go but definitely wkend is not my choice. I want to go for all rides. I have maxmised my $70 when I was in Tokyo Disneyland, though i did not went for ALL rides.

But before then, I will be going to Lotte World, and Yes, it's KOREA (13th to 19th Jan)

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Welcome 2010

Christmas eve: The happy thing is this year I had hubby with me, as many knows he will be in Dubai on all holidays eve. We had a mini pizza session at mum's place before heading home.
So the next about the unhappy thing was, we stayed at home for countdown. Immediately after 12 midnight, we were in lala land.

25th Dec : Had a mini gathering with the girls on Christmas and I really enjoy it though it might be a simple dinner, mini drinks session and not-really-good location (which is my house). The first fun part was preparation of food. None of the girls knew how to marinate so luckily Mummy Cynthia came and I am really surprised of her skills, and the meat she marinated was really DELICIOUS! Christina has to buck up, same goes to me!

2009 achievements:
- Had my own place, though the break-in, but it's a place where we call our nest.
- Had my iphone
that's too little right? but the others were job-related so no point.
2010 New Year Resolution:
- though many unhappy events passed, but it's now over. I had bad break-out on my face and body so i hope all this will be clear and i can regain my normal skin.
- Of course, a promotion in me and hubby career (which it's 80% of high chances for hubby, but me? unless the GM is not returning back to Japan).
- Finally, if possible, a special gift made of love could happen.